Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Unrecognized Hero


She opens her mouth in wisdom, and on her tongue is kindly counsel. Proverbs 31:26 NAB

I paid particular attention to the documentary that played repeatedly this week on the life and movement led by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. I was surprised to learn that such a large number of people, from various backgrounds, played roles in paving the way to the Civil Rights Movement that changed so many lives. I began to reminisce about the stories my mother and her siblings shared about the life of one individual who quietly played a role in this happening.

  She raised her children during the Great Depression and her life was a difficult one with little money and few luxuries. She had to wash clothes in a creek, cut wood for the stove and fireplace. She cooked meat and pork that she often had to slaughter herself.  She plowed, planted, and had to cook and can enough food to last through the winter months. She did all of this with little help from my grandfather, who for many years had a severe drinking problem. 
 
Even with her consuming schedule, Grandma Leslie was always willing to help others outside of her family, such as nearby neighbors. Prior to the Civil Rights Movement and long before whites and blacks socially interacted, grandma brought food to a black community near her home. She also made sure that the families of the small community of Mauvilla were warm in the winter months. When family members died, she was there to offer her sympathy and home cooked meats, vegetables and desserts. As a child, my mother recalled attending a funeral with Grandma and being the only white people in attendance.

I never heard my grandmother comment one way or another about her appearance or any one else’s. She had a way of looking beyond the human body into one’s soul. She did what she did, because she genuinely loved people. Her life had a long-lasting effect on everyone that met her and while her name does not appear in any of the history books, it is certain to be found in the book that really matters…The Book of Life.
Michele

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

The Chase


 I said in my mind, Come now, I will prove you with mirth and test you with pleasure; so have a good time [enjoy pleasure]. But this also was vanity (emptiness, falsity, and futility)! Ecclesiastes 2:1 AMP

 In the movie Smokey and the Bandit, Jackie Gleason stars as the cantankerous Sheriff Buford T. Justice. He spends the majority of the movie on a high-speed chase after Burt Reynolds who plays the role of the cool and debonair Bandit. I have always admired the Sheriff’s passionate perseverance and his determination to catch the Bandit. I will never forget this famous line where he says, “I’ll chase you in hot-pursuit to the ends of the earth.”    

“Chase” is an interesting term. It is the name and theme of a Bible study written by Jennie Allen* that our group is starting tonight.  As I looked over the introductory section, one of the first questions is, “what do you chase?” I thought for a long time about what I have been chasing for 52 years. Then I decided to look at each decade and analyze it:

1-10     Friendships, good family relations, a good time…

Teens   Friendships, love, a good time…

20’s     Education, career, a family, a good time…

30’s     Family life, financial stability and then some, comfort, a good time…

40’s     Family life, financial stability and then some, comfort, a good time...

It looks like the common denominator is a good time?   The truth is, I never wanted to be a stick-in-the-mud, but one day I got a glance from another angle. I was in my late forties when a friend and I were planning a trip (another good time) and she made a comment that caused me to re-think my current course. We were discussing a possible cruise with some mutual friends. She said, “I don’t think we want to go with them, they are religious and not fun like us.” I remember that this comment haunted me and while I didn’t make immediate changes, it was the start of a new, exciting chase. I came to realize that the only way to find a lasting good time is by chasing God.

 I have a long way to go in this new chase, but my prayer is to meet my maker and have Him say, “I loved your passion and determination in your hot-pursuit to chase Me to the ends of the earth.”

Michele
*Jennieallen.com/blog

Monday, January 7, 2013

Wait, Wait, Wait



 Pray continually (I Thessalonians 5:17 NIV).

 Have you ever watched people as you stand in line at a convenience store or post office? Many people sigh with much impatience; others are consumed by whatever intrigues them on their cell phones.   Have you by any chance glanced at folks while you wait at traffic lights?  Some are listening to music, another looking in the mirror, while others are checking their email or text messages.

Waiting, waiting, waiting… it is a bothersome part of life. An article I recently read, “How Do You Spend Your Life” offers some interesting statistics. If you live to the age of 60, the average person will spend 5 years waiting for such things as traffic lights to turn or delays in lines at the bank or grocery store.*  Now that is a lot of waiting!

A friend sent me a text message this morning about something she read that relates to our wait time. It is written by Ashley Kappel from the Daily Guidepost and says, “Remind me Lord, that fifteen minutes in traffic, on hold or in any line is simply a Guilt-Free excuse to spend time with YOU.”

At the beginning of each year we consider New Year’s resolutions to make changes in our lives such as: losing weight, eating better, exercising, watching less television, etc. I realized that I have never considered making changes to the time I am forced to waste while I wait.  So this year I am going to make a change in my “wait time,” by converting it to prayer time. I believe that this small change in 2013 to my one month of wait time can make a monumental difference in my life.  I might not be thinner in 2014, but what I once considered as annoying delays in my busy schedule will hopefully transform to divine blessings instead.

Michele

 *   www.live-adventuously.com/how-do-you-spend-your-life